While doing some research on cheats available for the Facebook games apps, I was quite astonished to see the new levels that cheating has gone to. It seems the addictiveness and competitiveness of Facebook games is bringing out a whole new sphere of dishonesty that simply wasn't here a few years ago.
While I don't have a problem with Facebook cheats in the gaming world I think it's quite disturbing to hear of the number of marriage and relationship break-ups that are attributable it seems to the new social networking era.
Of course jealousy and mistrust, which are which are the foundations of a rocky relationship, have always been around. Sometimes smouldering in the background. Igniting itself occasionally where alcohol is added as catalyst. The stresses of life in itself can wreak havoc on the best of relationships. But now as if working on your relationship wasn't hard enough couples have been forced into a whole new social arena that greatly exacerbates the situation.
Is your partner a Facebook cheat? It must be difficult to avoid such a doubt for many couples. The only sure way would be to have their password you might think, but that wouldn't really solve the problem though would it?
With millions of people now hooked on Facebook games, discovering that the only real way to get ahead is to have lots and lots of friends! The whole system encourages, even forces interaction through messaging and gifting and the likes. It's not uncommon now for people married or single to have hundreds if not thousands of friends, the majority of whom they wont know. They need them to play their game, to level up quickly. But does that put your mind at rest? Of course not.
Your partner is only human, and now it's easier than ever before in human history for them flirt with people they've never met and get away with it. Facebook cheats are everywhere it would appear, and they can easily remain unidentified, indulging in what started out as a harmless game like Mafia wars or whatever! This is can only be evidenced in the record number relationship break-ups today.
The whole thing seems unstoppable. A wife may notice her husband has amassed many friends, male and female. She cant help but notice the girls in particular. Some of them look so pretty, sexy even. So what does she do? She doesn't want to question her husband, but she cant bear it any more, so she adds them to her list of friends! Jealousy and mistrust can only abound.
So what can couples do to with Facebook in their lives? Here are a few tips that might help...
- Whenever you write anything about your partner on Facebook or anywhere only write nice things, only make positive up building comments.
- Make it a new rule or try to agree with each other not to write any personal things.
- Say your uncomfortable with having your profile available to strangers, and agree not accept friends requests from people you both have no idea who they are.
- If someone leaves a flirty comment about your partner - Ignore it, Facebook encourages these comments, they put words in peoples mouths, all they have to do is click. So it's only a silly comment, it's not a problem, but you must ignore it or it will become a problem so just leave it.
- Don't ask for your partners password, give them some trust.
- Don't do anything behind your partners back, like deleting messages etc.
When you do your best to take away any jealousy and mistrust, there can be so much fun to be had from social networking, and in particular with Facebook games. If you want to cheat, get a Facebook games cheat. Don't cheat on each other.
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